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It’s the afternoon of a scheduled date and the guy hasn’t texted you back/confirmed anything. What do you do
#poll
Block him
Still go to the date location
Cry in your bed
Write him a fuck you paragraph
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Anonymous 3w

Send him a reminder text

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Anonymous 3w

Ngl I just expect ppl to show up to the date without extra communication, then again I’ve never stood up or ghosted anyone before either

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Anonymous 3w

I wouldnt show up but I wouldnt contact him again without him reaching out first either, dont waste energy that isnt reciprocated

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Anonymous 3w

Don’t cry. Take yourself out on a date! I had a guy do the Same thing to me and I stayed home and cried. Then I let him do it to me again but this time I went out and got dinner at my favorite spot and a sweet treat in the way home! Felt MUCH better the second time

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Anonymous 3w

Btw, what ended up happening?

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Anonymous 3w

I would’ve called him. If he didn’t answer, I would’ve said “Hey, are we still good for later”? Whatever you do (and this applies to friends too) DO NOT start heading anywhere unless your friend or date confirms right before.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I sent one 2 days ago and he left me on read so I deleted my message

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Alr that’s some weird shit ngl, like sometimes I’ll leave on read bc I’m too busy and can’t respond but I always get around to answering. I would abort mission tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Another Option: say nothing, do nothing. Make the best out of your day.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah don’t go to that shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

I caved in and texted him “Hey again!” hoping to start a conversation. Left on delivered. Ended up drinking in bed eating tacos last night alone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m really sorry to hear! Fuck that guy

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