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Is it a problem that my boyfriend and I (of nine months) haven’t had a serious argument yet? I know the goal is to not argue much but I kinda feel like no arguing is worrying?
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Yes, you should’ve argued
Yes, but don’t worry about no argue
No, but you should argue soon
No arguements at all are fine
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Anonymous 4w

Don’t sike yourself out and start and argument just because you think it’s too good to be true. I’m such a self sabotager🤦🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous 4w

Have you ever had disagreements? If you think this is going to be a long long term relationship then it’s important to see how your partner deals with conflict before y’all have a major crisis as a couple

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Anonymous 4w

Ive been with my boyfriend for 2+ years and we have never had a serious argument just minor disagreements

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Anonymous 4w

I feel like people just like drama 🙄

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Anonymous 4w

I just had my 4 years with my bf and we have had 3 major arguments: one I don’t even remember what it was about I just know I was angry, and none came to a point we thought about calling it off

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Anonymous 3w

No disagreements is a bad sign imo (at least one of you doesn’t feel safe/comfortable/respected enough to do the uncomfortable thing and stand up for themselves) but no true fights is a good thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

We’ve had a couple like disagreements I guess you could call them. But normally it’s just me stating my issues and him rolling over and just going with it. He’s never mentioned anything that he doesn’t like even when I’ve specifically asked him so. I don’t know if he really is perfectly content or if he doesn’t feel like he can voice his problems ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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