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OnlyPolls 7w
How long should you date someone before moving in together?
#poll
Less than a year
One year
1-2 years
2+ years
After marriage
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Anonymous 7w

Ik why people do it, but moving in after marriage has got to be one of the dumbest ideas

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Anonymous 7w

Really depends on how fast the relationship develops, like I think any of these are valid except after marriage

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Anonymous 7w

Depends on the people and also on their financial situations i think

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

My cousin moved in with her fiance 1-2 months before the wedding and “mysteriously” called it off.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Why is it stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Why not after marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

because you haven’t experienced living together yet, which is kinda important to maintaining that marriage for the rest of your lives. cleaning habits in a shared space and the way you participate in all the new shared tasks from living together can easily destroy a relationship if people aren’t as compatible as they thought

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