All of them. They’re your kids, not your friends.

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What’s the point of option 1 when u have 2 and 3?

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Actively harming themself because in my eyes that includes all the above except for the last option. Even though I’d still want to be involved in that as well

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I think “harming themselves” is a good metric and kind of covers all the bad things that results from the others. But I do think there’s an argument to intervene before any harm happens. If your kid is doing weed etc they aren’t necessarily harming themselves, but I would want to intervene to make sure they know the importance of moderation, safety, and possible consequences so that they are watching themselves *before* they are harmed

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all of them i would say

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Generally 1, 2, and 3 are also 4

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I’d post more options but that was the limit n these were the main things to come to mind. These are mainly for adult children, not necessarily children below the age of 18

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i wouldn't care if my kid was smoking weed every now and then, but being dependent on it i would. i'd draw the line at things like coke and molly though because they're highly addictive and typically laced with fillers or other drugs

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Um before any of this?? No kid should be doing drugs?!

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I think it’s less about respecting boundaries and more abt i want my child to feel comfortable opening up abt all of these.

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Um as a child I don’t want them doing any of it but when they’re 18 I don’t care if they do legal drugs

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I am totally fine with my child 16+ experimenting with drugs/alc, monitored at home but if it becomes an issue where they are using without me or without telling me then I will intervene, I know kids that age will do it anyway so Id rather it be done safely and to my knowledge than otherwise, for any harm self inflicted or otherwise im 100% stepping in

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All of the above

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I mean if I have reason to believe my kid is in danger for any of these reasons I would want to do what I can to help them. Flawed question

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Depends on age. Also “harmed” is vague

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