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OnlyPolls 1w
Just found out the whole month my talking stage was staying at my apt every night, he asked a girl to coffee to study, txting n calling his past hook up & received a nude. We have been dating now for a month, I saw this in his phone. Idk what to do:(
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I would end it
I would stay
Forgive him
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Anonymous 1w

How is this even a question I don’t think you’ll ever be able to trust him after this

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Anonymous 1w

Ah yes, I’ve encountered this kind of man before. This specimen is called a hobosexual, they sleep with anyone they can in order to get a place to live. They tend to be messy, jobless, unskilled, and are often serial cheaters. You dodged a bullet babe, I lost a whole year to one of these wallet drainers. Boot his ass 🥰

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Anonymous 1w

The real question is if you should kill him or not

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Anonymous 1w

“Talking stage”. If you wanted fidelity, give him a commitment to be faithful to. As it is, there’s nothing to forgive. What, did you think he was holding out on you just so you could explore your options while he doesn’t? Either he’s the holdout in which case this was common sense, or you are, in which case you don’t really have room to condemn. If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 1w

Does HE know yall are in an exclusive relationship?

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Anonymous 1w

Don’t hate the player hate the game

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ppl like you are the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

The player is the one causing the problems, stop making excuses for shitty behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Yeah I don’t think I can.. he’s just trying to claim it was before we were official so it doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just hurtful bc literally he was staying at my house every night.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

He was in your home, probably in your BED, texting/sexting other women. Official or not is a whole different convo on loyalty and boundaries, thats too blatant of disrespect to forgive

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Hobosexual 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

EXACTLY what I keep thinking!! I just know he was in my bed doing this while I went to school or work, it HURTS. Like he has been such a great bf until I looked in his phone and saw that and idc if we weren’t official and we literally were having sex multiple times a day so it actually makes no sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

They’re surprisingly common nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

I WASNT exploring any other options. He was with me every night, it seemed like we were exclusive and I even asked if we were or could be early on and he didn’t wanna yet bc he clearly was talking to his old fling which I didn’t know about til one month into dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You asked him to be exclusive and he said no? Well, that sucks and I sympathize, but at least he was straight with you. You certainly can’t call this a betrayal

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

He did not say no, he said “I need a little time” which I didn’t think meant sexting and calling on the phone while in MY bed. He made it seem like we were exclusive by the texts, the notes, etc. so I would say it’s betrayal and he wanted to continuing being a hoe

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