
Look down on is weird phrasing. I would certainly not look down on them or consider them to have a moral failure or anything, 100% not a sign that you’re inferior in any way. Most guys I know wouldn’t be interested in a LTR relationship with that person. I’d guess most women would also not be interested in a guy with that track record either.
Sex isn’t just something you randomly do. It’s an active choice you make to share that part of yourself with someone, whether it feels random or not. To feel comfortable in sharing that part of yourself with tons of people DOES say something about you. Good or bad, it says something. It’s not too much sex, but it’s hopping to another partner so swiftly. I want someone who commits, so I do use body count as a way to view their commitment.