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Would you look down on a 24 year old who has a body count of 30+, but they’ve used protection every single time to ensure no STDs are spread or pregnancy happens?
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Anonymous 1d

Platonically no but romantically yes

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Anonymous 1d

I wouldn’t look down on them regardless for their sex life, not my business, they can do what they want and genuinely don’t see anything wrong with it

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Anonymous 1d

Assuming they started having sex at 18 that’s only around 5 sexual partners a year, which maybe indicates a problem holding down a long term relationship but isn’t really in “this is unhealthy” territory either

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Anonymous 1d

A man taking responsibility in this economy? He’s going above and beyond

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Anonymous 18h

Look down on is weird phrasing. I would certainly not look down on them or consider them to have a moral failure or anything, 100% not a sign that you’re inferior in any way. Most guys I know wouldn’t be interested in a LTR relationship with that person. I’d guess most women would also not be interested in a guy with that track record either.

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Anonymous 14h

body count is a thing that was made up to shame women for being sexual and i think it’s ridiculous. if they’re safe and everyone involved was consenting it doesn’t matter and im tired of ppl acting like being overly puritanical is normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14h

Nothing morally wrong with sleeping with lots of people. But it’s incorrect to say that it’s made up, many men would lose interest in women with a high body count, not all of course.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

and why would men lose interest? because we have all been socially conditioned to believe that a woman having “too much” sex (however we each may define it) is bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5h

Sex isn’t just something you randomly do. It’s an active choice you make to share that part of yourself with someone, whether it feels random or not. To feel comfortable in sharing that part of yourself with tons of people DOES say something about you. Good or bad, it says something. It’s not too much sex, but it’s hopping to another partner so swiftly. I want someone who commits, so I do use body count as a way to view their commitment.

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