I want to date but no marriage. Like long term dating, not just short flings or whatever. Same as marriage just not legally. Too expensive to get and get rid of if it were to come to that. Divorce is much more messy than breaking up. I know some people see the issues with divorce as a deterrent to separating and it’s good, but I don’t think that way. If you want to separate, you should be able to. Not stay in an unhappy marriage bc it’s expensive to leave