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How do you feel about wearing jewelry gifted to you by an ex? (Like how do you feel in general about if someones partner gives them jewelry and then they break up- it it ok or weird to still wear it)
#poll
It’s fine
Fine until you date new person
Fine for a short time after breakup
You shouldn’t wear it at all
Other -commenttt
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Anonymous 3w

tbh i’ll wear anything as long as it doesn’t have the persons name on it or something, and then i’d probably lie about where i got it from 🫥

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Anonymous 3w

imo it’s not a timeframe thing but about the specific jewlery. if it was just a pretty necklace vs like, the ex’s initial or an anniversary gift that’s a big difference

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Anonymous 3w

I think it depends on the jewelry and how/when it was given

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Anonymous 3w

It depends on the emotional significance. If you attach the jewelry to them emotionally, best not to wear it around during next relationship. If it’s not that deep and you just like sparkly things and aren’t even sure who really gave it to you, it’s fine

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Anonymous 3w

I’ll say just to clarify this excludes any explicit “couples jewelry” - like no heart jewelry/wedding/promise rings/etc I’m just asking about jewelry in general

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Anonymous 3w

Depends expensive the jewelry was

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Can you give an example? Like what would make it ok or not ok to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Like if it’s an initial or too specific, or associated with a strong memory

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