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When you really like someone, how soon into things do you find yourself starting to wish you were exclusive?
#poll
From the beginning
2-3 dates
At least 3 months
At least 6 months
More than 6 months
183 votes
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Anonymous 11w

I'm polyamorous so I guess "never" lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Why the downvotes? Sorry for not being normal, our polycule is very happy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Well you’re not normal lol that’s why the downvotes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I don't feel the need to downvote people for being monogamous even though it's not how I am. I don't get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Well… people don’t like stuff that isn’t normal. I feel like that’s just common sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

being polyamorous is an excuse to have sex with a bunch of people

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

It's not an "excuse" for anything. I love my partners, and I get along very well with my partners' other partners. I don't just go around having casual sex, there is a lot of communication and we carefully establish expectations and what we want from each other. I always felt like I had enough love in my heart to give it to multiple people, and I've found being in a polycule to be very fulfilling. I'm sorry you feel the need to degrade that just because it isn't the norm

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

You’re a loser

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Because I love multiple people? Personally I feel like a winner, I have three absolutely wonderful girlfriends and I adore them all so much, and I love spending time with them and their other girlfriends and boyfriends, I have the whole polycule over and cook for everyone a couple times a month. It's lovely

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I don't know why the concept of romantically loving multiple people at the same time is so difficult to grasp and people are so convinced it's fake

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Lol I was joking you do you boo

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