it’s always ugly men with hot women never ugly women with hot men. so definitely men care more about looks

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I think it’s roughly equal but in different ways if that makes any sense

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I think on average men care more about looks than women do but also that women are much closer to caring about looks as much as men do than we used to be (there is research behind both of these)

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I’m a lesbian, but generally I find myself attracted to the personality before the looks

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I say men but I don’t fall into that. Looks are obviously the first thing that attracts you but I could never date someone who doesn’t have a great personality cause there are definitely some fake people out there

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Pretty sure most sources are in agreement it’s objectively men simply from the way the biology of our brains evolved or whatever the science is

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