just ask her if that’s what she’d be down to do. the thing is, if u take a woman to an expensive place, that’s putting pressure on ur date. if she lets u pay, it’s not uncommon for men to make women feel like they owe their date something for paying for the meal, which could make her uncomfortable. if u split it, then there’s some financial pressure depending on her job situation if she didn’t get the chance to give her opinion on the price point of the place. so yeah just ask

23

Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with! It’s not a big deal

1

Not at all but literally tell her that tons of people on the same page as you and in the event that she isn’t at least she’ll understand ur reasoning

1

This would be a green flag imo, just as long as she expects it so she won’t feel underdressed

1

Better for a second date. First date should be quick and easy to leave imo. Like coffee or a walk or something

1

As long as you pay, I wouldn’t mind a fancy restaurant but also I couldn’t afford one 😭

1

Comment Deleted

0