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How do you do it? #selfcare
#poll
Standing up
Laying down
Sitting down
I’m all over the place
I don’t dance with the devil
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Anonymous 2w

oh wait i thought you meant like. how do i do self care not how do i masturbate

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Anonymous 2w

i don't know what "it" is but i want an "i dance with the devil" pin now

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Anonymous 2w

I don’t know how to masturbate. I am a woman who grew up in a very very very extremely religious conservative home. I remember crying in fear the first time I had to insert a tampon for sports because I had no clue what I was doing and I was always taught it was painful, scary, and shameful.

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Anonymous 2w

Lying down if I’m lazy/in a hurry but standing up if I have some time on my hands and need to do it fr (m)

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Anonymous 2w

Do lady’s do it standing up ? I’ve never seen or heard about someone standing to complete this mission lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

How do you do self care? “it” = masturbation

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

This sounds absolutely horrible and miserable

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Honestly, having not masturbated is impressive and you shouldn’t feel ashamed for being a touch virgin. I have a female friend who is in the same boat. As for the other part, I’m sorry you had to go through that :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I’m so so sorry you’ve experienced that! Sending u so much strength to work through the shame, trauma and toxic cycles and please don’t ever be afraid to ask questions and gain a deeper understanding of things without a harmful lens on it!🤍

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Oh some do… watch out for those women. They are wild ones .

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

definitely something worth learning as someone who is from a similar background, there’s lots of info online

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

That is caring for yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

ik but i thought you meant like putting on serums and washing your face etc which ofc i do standing up

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Not saying it has to be in a sexual context if you aren’t comfortable with that - but it is still important and extremely helpful imo in decreasing that sense of shame just to familiarize yourself with your own anatomy. Like, at least with like a medical diagram and getting used to the sight of your own body.

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