
It’s less that I’m seeking answers, more that I’m seeking perspective. We’re both happy, but a personal difference has come up that’s causing us to reconsider whether we’re right for each other. But we’re both in love and want to make it work, so we’re trying to do just that. And we can’t do that on our own, hence reddit
Two people can love each other very much, and be happy together now, but still not be right for each other. Those are some of the hardest breakups, but if you know you won’t be right for each other in the long run then the sooner you end it the less painful it’ll be. (I’m assuming that if the Reddit comments all said breakup over a personal different that it’s major enough to warrant this)