BMI is bullshit. I like big boys. As long as you take care of yourself and your hygiene and can participate in the things I enjoy like the occasional hike and beach trip I’ve got no issue

46

Depends on if it’s to the point of being unhealthy or not. I don’t mind little fat visually but if they’re struggling to stay active or have high/low readings of different things then it’s a pass for me since I would like to enjoy working out with my partner.

17

i am overweight, who am i to judge

10

As someone who was obese, I couldn’t date someone else who’s obese. Deep down it’s hard unseeing the unhealthiness and fuckery that we’re putting in our bodies. It’s really not our faults for our weight struggles, it’s the pre-packaged bs. I still struggle with weight and have gone through a lot of lengths to get rid of my fat. It’d be crazy going through that journey with someone else, though. I’d need to meet someone in the aftermath of realization and the re-wiring of the brain if anything

4

Overweight yes though it is a minus, obese only if they had a nice face, were dieting/exercising consistently, and losing weight

1

I used to be obese and I’m on the journey to healthy weight (currently mildly overweight but still down 80 lbs from starting) and I would absolutely date someone who is overweight. 1) my weight gain was due to life-saving medication and made me extremely insecure and I would hate to make anyone else feel the way I felt. 2) I think weight can look really good on some people. I’m also F and lesbian.

1

Was gonna click no then remembered my bf is

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