Not only are they not paying for your dinner. YOU are paying for THEIR dinner. Or someone is, hopefully significant other, parents, best friend, or the group.
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Anonymous1d
Not unless my friend is like a millionaire
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Anonymous1d
If we’re college students then we’re all paying for ourselves 😭 who has the money for that
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Anonymous1d
I wonder if this is a generational thing because I would never want a friend to pay for me on their bday, but I saw a debate about this online where most people were saying the first option.
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Anonymous1d
From what Ive seen the expectation is that if you put forth the invite you should pay or disclose clearly that they need to pay themselves regardless of generation. I dont think the expectation is inherently diff I think the typical choice and communication is diff
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AnonymousOP1d
my mom is 51 and strongly agrees with the first option, she’s also not from the us tho so that might be a factor too
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AnonymousOP1d
None of those people have ever been out to dinner with friends