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If a same-gender couple goes on a first date (assuming similar incomes, but one person is more traditionally masculine/feminine presenting than the other person) who should pay?
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They should split or alternate
The more masc person
The more fem person
Whoever asked out the other first
No idea
224 votes
If a straight man and woman (with similar incomes/access to finances) go on a first date, should the man pay?
#poll
They should split or alternate (f)
They should split or alternate (m)
He should pay (f)
He should pay (m)
The woman should always pay
295 votes
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Anonymous 20h

The restaurant

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Anonymous 18h

Personally I think it should always be who asked the other out, or else split if they agree on that

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Anonymous 18h

Could you imagine debating with them who’s more masc and therefore has to pay? Prolly not what you meant but I find that so funny

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Anonymous 19h

I think everyone regardless of gender or orientation should be splitting the check and like. Paying for what they ordered

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Anonymous 12h

they should arm wrestle and whoever wins pays /j

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Anonymous 20h

Whatever they agree on, it’s none of my business even if they’re straight instead

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

True true happy pride 🏳️‍🌈

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

And if one person wants to pay for the other as like a cute gesture than sure but it’s not an expectation of either party and either party is able to make that gesture regardless of whether they’re masculine or feminine

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

I can imagine that exact conversation actually I think I’ve experienced smth similar

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13h

fr like “well u have shorter hair” “well im wearing more makeup” 😭 sounds like a great way to not get a second date

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