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What are your thoughts of a bf seeking out a new girl from the gym that he kind of knows of and wanting to get to know her by getting food or going to the beach?
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That’s fine
Not fine
I would end it
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Anonymous 1w

Girl run

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Anonymous 1w

Oh wait. You said bf. I was confused by your wording and thought you meant he was someone else 😭 Idk. Brain is fried, but yeah. That’s not ok

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Anonymous 1w

Nah that’s crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

So he did tell this girl he has a gf eventually like a FEW DAYS after texting but she didn’t wanna go anymore because she says there is attraction there and wouldn’t be comfortable. So maybe I should be happy he told her and didn’t go? He tells me he just wanted more friends bc he doesn’t have any back at home. I literally only know this tho bc I saw the text messages. We had only been together for like 2 months so it’s still really fresh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Still weird

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Anonymous 1w

We have only been together for like 3 months and didn’t really discuss boundaries like that.. i honestly just thought that was common sense in a relationship not to get other girls numbers? Idk I overthink and get really jealous easily so idk:( I’m just sad and we got into a huge fight and now I feel terrible

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Anonymous 1w

Thanks so much for the input and advice. I really appreciate u. Last thing I will say is that he also sent her a song on instagram bc he knows what she likes? This was a month later and then ALSO even after having this convo and how upset it made me, a few weeks later he hid a girl “friend” from me that apparently likes him still bc he knew i would also get upset. I want to just trust so bad but i hate that he doesn’t tell me these things

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