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how do you guys feel if your bf continues to follow girls on insta that are our age and are obviously very beautiful & post sum bikini photos, etc. like is this not weird or is it something to just be fine with bc social media has just become like this?
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just how it is now
no it’s not ok, I’d be mad
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Anonymous 2d

Uhhh you mean girls he knows/knew..? How would that be a problem lol? Like if dude follows people from his high school, there’s bound to be pics like that. Yall are looking too much into it. If he follows influencers like that, though, your mans is a gooner

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Anonymous 2d

He probably doesn’t think about it at all it’s not that deep

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Anonymous 2d

U most likely do the same thing without even realizing

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Anonymous 5h

People saying it’s not ok need to work on themselves and are probably not girl’s girls. You can’t shelter your boyfriend from the world.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

No not girls he knows/knew like new random girls.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I would never care if it’s girl he knows. But I think I just am insecure and need to work on that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I have a low follow count and I don’t search or try to follow new people! But maybe that’s just what he does

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Tbf I follow girls who post bikini pics just from trying to meet people when I first joined college, it’s not something I think about but if my gf wanted me to unfollow them I would

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Like if you had a gf would you continue doing that? Cause I’m not talking about girls from before me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Well, I believe, especially in college, you meet a ton of people. Some of those people you will get their instagrams. And some of those instagrams will have bikini pics I’m a guy, btw, that’s why I’m saying this. I would think nothing of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

I’m just meaning it’s new random girls that he finds attractive, none that he meets or knows. But I know what you’re saying, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Personally I think it’s really weird and I’d be really upset tbh. Ik it’s probably insecurity but if it was random girls I would see it as so disrespectful. Like ok u find other girls attractive like totally normal but going out of ur way to follow them to keep seeing them with that lustful intention is disrespectful imo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I wouldn’t think to unfollow them i wouldn’t be following them bc i think they’re attractive but id she wanted me to unfollow them i would

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Wouldn’t request to follow random new girls who I don’t know though

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