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Is it gay for a man to perform fellatio on a pre-op trans woman?
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Anonymous 2w

Is it technically gay, yes. Does it matter, no

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Anonymous 2w

Trans women are women and trans men are men I do not understand the chronically online obsession with genetalia in regards to sexuality 🫩

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Anonymous 2w

who cares, be with whoever you want

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Anonymous 2w

It depends on why he wants to suck her dick, if he wants to suck on any penis and that just happens to be the most accessible one, yes he’s gay, if he only wants to suck her dick to make her feel good as a sexual partner, not it’s not gay

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Anonymous 2w

Cuz even though I agree to identify them as a women they are still biologically a male

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Anonymous 2w

If your a dude and you suck any penis you’re gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Cuz they still have a penis

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Technically it's not, if you consider that body parts are not equal to gender (social expression).

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Sexuality is about who youre attracted to, not what, trans women are women end of conversation I fear her genitalia is irrelevant to her partners sexuality

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I agree that trans women are women but if you suck their dick it’s still gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

How is a man giving head to his partner, a woman, gay if you agree that trans women are women? mentioning her genitalia in anyway is dismissive of her identity bc sexuality is abt identity not genetalia, saying 'she has a penis' is equivalent to saying 'shes not a real woman'/'shes still a man'

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

So then you dont agree that trans women are women and you are a transphobe, hope this helps? I fear it doesnt get simpler than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I fear it’s hard to change my mind if ur gonna be a dick

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Im not trying to change your mind Im telling you what you said because youre contradicting yourself 💀 'they' and 'still biologically male' means you dont see them as women but 'I agree that trans women are women', theres no nice way to break that down

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

So you don’t agree that a trans women is still biologically a male?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I agree that they biologically can still have male genetalia but that does not make them male in any way, there are plenty of intersex people born with entirely female bodies and hormones except for their genitalia would you call them men? Or vice versa would those men be women? This isnt any different

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Identifying as the opposite gender is completely different than being born with an intersexual condition.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Its people who identify with gender that doesnt match their genetalia either way which is why I posed the example

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Thats really not the insult you think it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

I wasnt insulting anyone, I stated a fact 💀 if your first thought abt a trans woman is that shes biologically male, youre a transphobe its not an insult

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That wasn’t even my first thought 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

It was in this context because you think being with her sexually makes her male partner gay, thats literally what you said

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

“In this context” and “literally what you said” contradict each other

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

No. They dont. That is what you said in the context of the given situation, so your first thought in this situation is that she is still biologically male, Im not entertaining you further if youre gonna try semantic grammar arguments (that arent even correct) because youre mad youre wrong 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

A male sucking dick or taking it up the ass is gay no matter what gender their partner is

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Well that’s not something a lot of people consider

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Well no, the people you encounter everyday arent looking at your genitals to decide whether to call you maam or sir.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

On the technicality of something being gay, it’s a genetically born man, lovin on another genetically born man. I don’t need to argue with something that inherently and technically is in fact gay. Again, it doesn’t matter if it is, but it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

But you're not getting that gender is social and not biological, as commonly understood by scientists and social scientists. And therefore what's genetic is irrelevant.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

We can go back and forth all you want but if you are a man, attracted to penis, you are in fact gay. Doesn’t matter if they present themselves as feminine or are transgender. That person is gay, or anything aside from hetero

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Well then that's the point of contention: whether "gay" means attraction to the same sex or the same gender.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

this. People seem to think sex is about the other person’s set of genitals more than it is about *the person* in too many cases.

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