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Should I wait for a serious relationship to lose my virginity?
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Serious relationship
Hookup/fwb
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Anonymous 2w

Do what you want not what random people on here want

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Anonymous 2w

a serious relationship. hookups can be rude and uncaring at times and may just care about their pleasure and not yours. if you do fwb, make sure its a close friend

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Anonymous 2w

I lost mine after 8 months in a serious relationship and while I think waiting a little while in a relationship was worth it (like, 3 months maybe) 8 was way too long and created too much pressure for the moment to be perfect and it was not. I’d recommend waiting for someone who you KNOW cares about you outside of sex. Sex with someone who cares about how you feel vs someone who does not cannot be compared IMO. Boink wisely friend!

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Anonymous 2w

do what you want because it doesn’t matter

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Anonymous 2w

i personally lost mine w/ a hookup cause i was tired of being a virgin and wanted to get it over with, however do whatever you feel is right and don’t worry what others think

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Well yeah I was just wondering what others think about it, obviously I’ll decide what I want in the end based on the situation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

did you feel okay afterwards?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

i felt fine but the sex was pretty mid tbh, i was more kinda relieved to have it over with honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I voted serious relationship because that’s what a lot of people opt for, but I certainly wouldn’t judge you for the alternative

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