
I lost mine after 8 months in a serious relationship and while I think waiting a little while in a relationship was worth it (like, 3 months maybe) 8 was way too long and created too much pressure for the moment to be perfect and it was not. I’d recommend waiting for someone who you KNOW cares about you outside of sex. Sex with someone who cares about how you feel vs someone who does not cannot be compared IMO. Boink wisely friend!