
I have used it 3 times in my life. Once I was little and didn’t understand it, the second time was when I was dating a black guy and he gave me a one time pass, and I said it out of anger once. I felt disgusted especially the second two times. I hate the word and plan to never say it again. White girl
this is why i don’t understand why black men give their yt gfs the pass cs then y’all use it against them out of anger lol there isn’t even no such thing as “the pass” if they want sb who can say the n word why not date a blk woman?! but i’m glad u have learned from ur mistakes that’s all that matters
by calling it "edgy" or "shock value" you are contributing to the minimization that makes people comfortable saying it. it's not "edgy", it's racist. it's not "shock value", it's bigotry. they are not children, they are adults; and even if they weren't it's no excuse because plenty of kids know better