Let’s be real, even if they hate Obama no one is called him a black bitch. That’s basically reserved for women.

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Anonymous #1 15w

Just like I’ve never seen anyone call a white man a white bitch

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trump acts like a little bitch a lot more than Harris

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Bitch originated from the term for a FEMALE dog, so it absolutely is intended to be derogatory towards women. You may call whoever you want a bitch, but that doesn’t negate what the term actually represents.

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Anonymous #7 15w

Wait that makes it sound sexist

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What the fuck are u talking about

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Being a bitch is all about sex. Bitch is a derogatory way to refer to a woman😐

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Anonymous #14 15w

Someone told me “bitch” is a derogatory term for women

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Anonymous OP 15w

But like how is that sexist? I call men horrible things too 😭

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Anonymous #14 14w

They’re referring to Kamala. So yes it’s sexist.

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Anonymous #14 14w

It’s a word specifically targeted at women or femininity when used against men. There is also no curse word in English that’s the equivalent for men, so that cemments it even further as misogynistic

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Anonymous #19 14w

You’re probably right about them just wanting attention. Idk, ig the only people I’ve interacted with who’ve been argumentative purely for the sake of attention were trolls, not people who genuinely seem to believe what they’re arguing (I know that’s common on twitter but I’ve rarely ever used twitter). I think I figured if I could just get them to listen that things would go well

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Anonymous #20 14w

Nope. They are refusing to listen to your side and this is not the way to go about educating them either. I hope they are able to find out on their own but its not your responsibility to do it for them. They have to educate themselves

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Anonymous #20 14w

The n word?

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Anonymous #14 14w

That’s for black people, not men

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Anonymous #23 14w

Oh it’s about Kamala? That’s why people voted neither 😭 a lot of ppl don’t like her so they probably excused the insults

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Anonymous #20 14w

The n word is 110% used to refer to men tho? In rap songs? Slang? The n word with the hard r is the one used to insult all black people. The n word is used in modern slang to refer to another man.

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Anonymous #20 14w

“These n words gay!”

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Anonymous #14 14w

?

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Anonymous #14 14w

I’m extremely certain I’ve heard plenty of black women use it with each other. Rap is pretty male dominated so it makes sense that in rap, you mainly hear it from men, but that doesn’t mean it’s for men only

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Anonymous #20 14w

This is a verse from Megan thee stallions “hiss” with the n word, feels pretty gender neutral to me here

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Anonymous #20 14w

Bitch ass n word would be referring to everyone, men and women. Question… is she sexist now since she said bitch? 😭

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Anonymous #20 14w

Cuz if ur gonna use that to say the n word is gender neutral then so is the word bitch 😭

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Anonymous #20 14w

Dawg u cannot deny modern slag refers to men as the n word. U in denial rn

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Anonymous #14 14w

Ok surely you’re trolling right now

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Anonymous #20 14w

Ok bud

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Anonymous #20 14w

Just in case, I’m going to leave it at this: n word without hard r is the reclaimed version of the word, it’s used casually and can refer to men or women. With the hard r is the original version and is extremely racist and, like the reclaimed version, is for men or women

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Anonymous #20 14w

You don’t follow your own logic. If the n word is gender neutral because black girls use it with each other, then so is bitch because males use “bitch” with each other too?

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Anonymous #14 14w

N word is a slur against black people which has been reclaimed by black people by not using the hard r. Bitch is a derogatory term targeted at women. When people call men bitches with derogatory intent, it’s targeting annoying and aggressive traits often seen as feminine. N word without hard r is heard most often in rap which is male dominated, meaning you hear black men say it more often than black women. It can and is used to address black women though Bitch can address men or women, but it-

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Anonymous #20 14w

-targets femininity. So, it’s misogynistic

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Anonymous #20 14w

*can and is used to address black women too though

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Anonymous #20 14w

Honestly, the original comment was nasty and disrespectful, no one should talk about people like that. But I personally didn’t read it as sexist. I saw it as a racially motivated insult toward Kamala, not an attack on women. Just because someone uses a gendered word doesn’t mean they’re sexist, context matters, and to me the issue here was clearly race.

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Anonymous #1 14w

All jokes really I saw neither started laughing and clicked it realistically most ppl clicked it cuz we don’t give a shi well that’s me ngl

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Anonymous OP 14w

I saw you say somewhere that you didn’t vote and I asked why but you deleted the comment… why didn’t you vote op? 🤔

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Anonymous #14 14w

Hard R or A it’s the same word. It’s been softened because we have a different dialect(mostly here in the south). If someone pronounces fire as “fiya” yk they’re still talking about fire even tho the “err” has been softened 😐

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Why are yall all of sudden ignoring social patterns bruh. Acting like u don’t exist in this modern generation and hear the jargon?

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Anonymous #14 14w

I’m a black person telling u that it’s the some word. Ur right we live in the modern era so ppl who aren’t black shouldn’t be fighting to use an old ass word used to oppress ppl🤦🏾‍♂️

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Ok? Does being black make u like automatically right? What?

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Anonymous #14 14w

Automatically right on the history of the n word and why other ppl shouldn’t say it? Yes are u fucking stupid?

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Are you fucking stupid? Because when was that ever my argument?

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Anonymous #14 14w

Ur using the same argument those who want to use the word make. The n word refers to any black person not just men.

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Ok? I still wasn’t making that argument. Can you stick to the topic? That the post wasn’t really sexist? And that men get referred to as the n word in modern western slang ?

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Anonymous #14 14w

U don’t think calling a woman a bitch is sexist?

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Anonymous #14 14w

In modern western slang the n word refers to all black ppl not just men once again

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Then so does the word bitch bro and here we come back full circle

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Not really ? I’m a woman no I don’t think calling a woman a bitch is sex. It’s just disrespectful and rude.

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Anonymous #14 14w

Historically the word bitch was used to refer to women in a derogatory manner bro😭

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Sexist*

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

OK, we are talking about modern day context bro. Oh my goodness follow along.

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Anonymous #14 14w

Even in a modern day context it’s still used to oppress women….

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

It’s used as an insult in modern day context. Usually to insult women, but it’s used to insult Men too like, what are you talking about? I don’t know. I’ll keep throwing red herrings, backtracking, and circling around me calling out your flawed logic.

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Anonymous #14 14w

So it insults you as well right?

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Anonymous #14 14w

And ppl have used the n word to try and insult white ppl. That doesn’t change what the purpose of the word is for? The term “bitch” is rooted in misogyny 😭 even when used to refer to men it’s still derogatory towards women because when they say a man is “acting like a bitch” or “is being a bitch” they’re saying he’s acting like a woman 😱

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

And when they’re saying a man is “acting like a woman” they’re claiming that he’s being overly sensitive, too emotional, even irrational. Yk…negative traits associated with women😭

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Anonymous #19 14w

what?

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

I think I see the misconception. Do u think I’m saying the origins of the n word were to insult men? Cuz that’s not what I was saying at all. Yall gotta learn to think critically fr

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Anonymous #14 14w

No that’s not what I think ur trying to say😐

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Then what the fuck are you going on about right now dude

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Anonymous #14 14w

That even when ppl use the word bitch against men it’s still derogatory towards women😭 that comment towards Harris is both racist and misogynistic.

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

No, I’m not even talking about your last comment. I’m talking about how the fuck did this conversation even come to this like what? Go back and reread everything from my first comment like holy shit.

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Anonymous #14 14w

I brought up the usage of the n word. U claimed in western slang it’s used to refer to men. I’m telling u that it refers to ANY BLACK PERSON. We call women the N word, trans men the n word, trans women the n word, ect. Anyone who is black is referred to as the n word in a modern context. Then I told u that the term bitch is derogatory towards women even when used against men because it’s rooted in misogyny

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Anonymous #14 14w

Would you go back and read everything else? No. So why are you expecting someone else to do so?

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Anonymous #19 14w

Dude so j shut the fuck up and don’t respond like what 😭

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Yes, I understand. The N-word is used referred to Black people. what IM saying it’s also used to refer to men, and no one calls it sexist so why are y’all calling it sexist when someone refers to a woman as a bitch? people say the N-word and bitch to refer to females males. We see this on social media and text and rap songs and slang.

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Sorry, I’m using voice to text so I have some typos

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Anonymous #14 14w

The n word was not originally used as a derogatory term toward women, it’s a derogatory term towards all black people. The term bitch is originally a misogynistic term used against women, hence it being sexist regardless of how it’s used today

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Anonymous #28 14w

OK guys that’s not my fucking point holy shit

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Anonymous #14 14w

I just addressed the paragraph you sent, that is your point from what’s written

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Anonymous #28 14w

Wrong the point was that #7 said that which proves the point #14 was trying to make

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Anonymous #28 14w

Just say your not intelligent and get over it

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Anonymous #29 14w

I don’t think what #7 and what I said are the same at all? Also calling me unintelligent because I’m trying to understand what #14 is asking and answer is excessive

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Anonymous #28 14w

Then you can’t fucking read, bro

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Anonymous #14 14w

That’s because of the historical context behind each word. It doesn’t matter how we use them today it matters why these words were created and how they were originally used. It’s not sexist when u refer to men as the n word because it wasn’t and isn’t just used against men. It’s sexist when u call anyone a bitch because it’s rooted in misogyny. That’s the reasoning.

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Anonymous #14 14w

Nah ur good

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

I never said it was sexist to call men the n word. I was saying it’s not instantly sexist to call a woman a bitch Do u understand?

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Anonymous #14 14w

And I’m telling u that’s wrong. It’s instantly sexist for men to call women a bitch because of the reasons I just listed

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

And you’re wrong about that 😬 words have meaning. Abuse them, and they lose it

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Anonymous #14 14w

When ppl say bitch they’re using it the way it was intended. It’s not hard to go to google and type “why is bitch derogatory” and idk…research 😭

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Anonymous thereal._.ruckus 14w

Research an opinion?

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Anonymous #14 14w

It’s not an opinion…

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