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can you cheat in a situationship? share your reasoning
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yes
nope
depends
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Anonymous 17w

Not cheating but ngl some of y’all “situationships” are literally relationships but without a label

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Anonymous 17w

theres no cheating bc its not a real relationship. situationships are not real, that person does not want you😭

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Anonymous 17w

If you’re using the word “situationship” then the whole thing is a joke and you need to deeply reconsider your life

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Anonymous 17w

depends what boundaries you’ve discussed with the other person. if you’re not exclusive, then it’s not cheating

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Anonymous 17w

Depends on what your definition of a situationship is because there are a lot of conflicting ones

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Anonymous 17w

y’all please explain. i wanna hear perspectives.

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Anonymous 17w

It’s a situationship not a real relationship and it’s a situationship for a reason

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Anonymous 17w

it’s split so evenly

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Anonymous 17w

does this mean is it possible to cheat or is it okay to cheat

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

If it’s not an official relationship I don’t think it counts as cheating. It’s a real shitty thing to do but it’s not cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

how so?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

You can’t cheat in a situationship it’s not a real relationship if it was then it would be a relationship not a situationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17w

so it means is it possible to cheat

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

No because cheating involves value. Cheating on a test or a game to win or to get an A. Cheating in a relationship for lust, money, etc. A situationship has no value so it’s impossible to cheat. It’s people using each other because they can’t get who they really want or they’re too afraid to be alone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17w

I think ur misunderstanding my question. i’m just asking what the question means bc there’s 2 different possible interpretations of the phrasing, not what your answer to the question is

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

Idk I only see it one way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17w

situationship is courting and you can't demand or expect exclusivity without talking about it. i personally wasn't talking to anyone else when i was talking to my now bf, since i think it's strange to want others and then immidiately commit to one person just because of a label, but it's not cheating if you do

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 17w

mb i replied when i wanted to write my comment independent.

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