See I don’t see a problem with that if they were in their 30s 40s and 50s but fresh into adulthood with no direction or experience in being an adult is some weirdo shit. And I only say that 10 years apart, not being a problem for fully grown adults because most peoples parents and grandparents have gaps like that. If I’m not mistaken, the average age gap for someone in their 40s to 50s is 5-12 years apart in western culture specifically.