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People slut shaming Taylor by trying to say she dated around too much as if 12 people in 20 years is a lot lol. Those are baby numbers go talk to anyone who participated in hookup culture in college and then you’ll get into actual numbers.
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Anonymous 6w

Especially when she spent most of that time single and only dated people for a few months at a time, which is how teens and 20s people date.

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Anonymous 6w

Also the way people see her with any man and say "that's her new boyfriend". In real life you don't count those failed talking stages or failed first dates toward the number of people you've dated

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Anonymous 6w

12 is def a lot of people to date In 20 years if you’re talking about like being boyfriend and girlfriend, if you are just counting going on atleast 1 or 2 dates then yeah 12 isn’t a lot

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Anonymous 6w

Im a big swiftie and honestly she’s never gotten serious with anyone except the sparks between her and travis

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Anonymous 6w

Actual numbers? Like what

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Genuinely curious since I haven’t dated yet and would like to know

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

12 is not a lot of you only dated them for 1-3 months at a time when you were under like 23.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

If all your relationships are lasting 1-3 months that’s another problem in itself, how old are you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Taylor was dating these people from 16-23😭 that really ain’t much. Especially because these were people she wa shit seen out with. There is a massive difference between dating and being together.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well that’s why I said it depends on what you’re considering dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I would say that Jake, Joe, and Travis are probably her only “real” relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Then yeah that’s not crazy at all

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

12 is a lot in 20 years 😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Not really. She spent the majority of the time single my guy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well that's a red herring if I've ever seen one. 12 in 20 years is a lot regardless

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Nah cuz I’ve dated 4 people in past 6 years but as you get older you should be in longer lasting relationships, if I get in 8 relationships in the next 14 years I’m clearly doing something wrong/not learning from the relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

“As you get older” as if most of her relationships didn’t happen before the age of 23-24. Early 20s is still hella young, younger than people in their 20s would wanna admit. Since she was 25 all she has had was long term relationships, she was with Joe for 6, almost 7 years and has been with Travis for 2

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Hey are u gonna respond to me yet or just act like i didn't make u look like a fool

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Girl chill I didn’t see your comment lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Your acting like Kamala right now

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

12 in 20 when you only “dated” them for a month or two at most and you weren’t official is not a lot at all. It’s just casual dating and literally most people do it, especially in the age before dating apps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Oh you’re one of those dumb people lmao.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Not my fault you don’t understand dating culture my guy. It’s okay if you don’t, not everyone is into that life and not everyone can get a relationship, let alone even a first date.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I understand that 12 partners in 20 years is a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

^ yeah it’s normal to date 12 partners in 20 years is just a lot, like obviously in the beginning relationships may only last months but after the first few they should probably be lasting longer

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

lol. 12 in 20 if you’re dating them all one after another in quick succession is a lot. Dating one or two people for a couple months out of a year and possible having years between partners isn’t a lot at all. That’s middle school logic. It’s literally her dating 2 people a year, a year with nobody, one the next year, a year with nobody.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

12 in 20 years is a lot, idk how ur trying to justify it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

But it really is not. You just sound like someone who can’t get with even one person😭. Half of them weren’t even official boyfriends, just people she was dating. And most people date multiple people at the same time when they aren’t exclusive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

It just comes across as being bitter about your own lack of partners and dating experience in your young adult years. Maybe go out and partake in the dating world? Because everyone will tell you it’s pretty normal to date around in your teens and 20s. It may not seem normal to you, but it is normally socially.

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Anonymous replying to -> zoeyz 6w

I mean, she dated Joe for 6-7 years. It was serious even if the sparks weren’t there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Literally. “She was spotted in public 3 times with this person man it’s really heating up!” And it’s their third date and they aren’t exclusive lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yep I agree she’s only been serious with around 3 people and it was over 20 years so yeah I just gave the most current example

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