IM TRYING. “Why feed into it?” but men eat it up regardless? maybe men are too easily distracted why is this always about women using their bodies to feed into it? And never about how men are always assuming access to their bodies… assuming she’s feeding the gaze w/out considering whether she’s being played or doing the playing says WAY more about how they’re framing the image than the image itself. The trope is already stale… letting him think he’s in charge til the mv ends w/ his coffin