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Is it a red flag if I am always the one that has to initiate the conversation?
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Anonymous 1w

Yeah… maybe have a convo with the person but if it doesn’t change then I think you should move on to better things

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Anonymous 1w

I think so just bc if they don’t initiate convo as much as you do it might be a sign that they lack interest

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Anonymous 6d

If you think putting in effort by starting a conversation is a red flag then he dodged a bullet. “Oh no, I actually have to put in effort or try, wtf”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Should I still have this convo even if we aren’t dating but just went on a couple dates?

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Anonymous replying to -> zmemelord 6d

Huhhh reread

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

My answer is the same. Reverse the roles and react to a guy complaining about having to always text first. It’s irrelevant but you made it a big deal.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Maybe don’t initiate and wait for a while, and if he doesn’t say anything at all, tell him that u feel like ur always the one initiating

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