I think it’s a red flag if he’s already given you reason to doubt him. Like, if it’s just every once and a while it might be normal, but if he full on doesn’t spend any nights with you even if you stayed at his place, then yeah super sus

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Doesn’t sound like a red flag to me

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I do have to agree with #1 honestly just talk to him if he can’t give you an answer too ease your mind or just talk it out then trust your gut just try not to jump to conclusions communication is key in a relationship

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I go to sleep in my dorm on weeknights because I paid too much to not use it, and I stay with my girlfriend on weekends. We’ve been together for a little over 2 years. We both get very sad when I have to go back to my dorm and we meet up for lunch at least once during the week. Does it seem like your bf genuinely want to spend time with you? If so, then don’t sweat it too hard.

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