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I think my friend is living a double life, lying to me, etc. I feel uncomfortable and weirded out by her how can I get her out of my life
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Anonymous 1d

yeah context would be better, but if you want her out, i’d either be straight up w her and communicate it w her, OR just start creating distance

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It’s a lot. I’m not really good with creating distance, so I just deleted and blocked her. It would make me anxious having someone like that in my life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

We’ve been friends for 10+ years but she constantly lies and hides stuff . I can’t stand it anymore, it’s like she’s playing mind games with me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Why don’t you start playing mind games too? Just start introducing lies to the conversation as well. Then when she asks for the truth, lie some more. This clearly seems like the healthiest approach.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

tbh i’m glad you figured out a way to get someone living a double life out of your life. that kind of stuff can really mess with you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

honestly that’s the best way to go about it, i just know some ppl have a hard time dropping someone they’ve been friends w for such a long time, i’m proud of you fs that’s a huge weight lifted off of you and you put yourself first :)

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