Are my standards too high to wish that when i call my boyfriend sobbing from pain that I want his reaction to be “i’m on my way what else do you need” and not “im sorry and i love you” (i have chronic pain that VERY RARELY gets to me)
Definitely tell him this is you haven’t, but also if he lives too far away understand that it maybe not be possible. If none of those work just need a new bf lowkey