Relationship Advice on Yik Yak | My LD bf and I literally only talk once every 3 days and it’s just a short “I love you” exchange. We never spend time together unless he wants to and he doesn’t tell me when he’s home from stuff etc. He changes, but only shortly when I bring it up. Help☹️

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Relationship Advice 3w

My LD bf and I literally only talk once every 3 days and it’s just a short “I love you” exchange. We never spend time together unless he wants to and he doesn’t tell me when he’s home from stuff etc. He changes, but only shortly when I bring it up. Help☹️

Anonymous 3w

On the never spending time together unless he wants to—I’ll ask, give him a time frame I’m free, and then he’ll say he'll “get back to me” (all sweet) and then …. Doesn't. I try not to remind him because I know it makes both him and I not want to do it but… come on now

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OP 3w

It’s getting to the point where I know we both still love each other but at the same time it doesn’t seem to be worth it to be in a relationship anymore, is it? I fell for him because he cared and even if he still does he’s not acting like it.

Anonymous 3w

10 months, and… that’s exactly the thing 😭 I try to reach out so we can be in more contact but if I don’t catch him during his prime windows I will either not get a response or get one much later. I kind of feel like a 1950s housewife I’m ngl

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OP 3w

I’m feeling the same way in my relationship. We did have a talk about things that I didn’t like about our relationship and he did make some effort to change them, I’m not sure if it’s enough for me to feel secure in our relationship but maybe you can have a talk with your bf and see if things change for the better. If they really don’t then yeah it might be time to let it go cause if not you’re going to be more unhappy over time.