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Okay, so I’ve been talking to a girl for 3 months and we’ve been on dates and really got close and said love you for many nights in a row, but she’s been busy with school prep and I say it, she doesn’t say it back to me ex:
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Anonymous 4w

“Goodnight love you” “goodnight” she says that she’s just exhausted from like the school prep but I’m an overthinker, so idk if I should just be patient until it’s all over and hope things back to normal or should I really confront her about it, but she warned me in the past that this will be draining, am I just in my head about this?

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Anonymous 4w

I know it might be hard for her but if she really loves you she shouldn't be treating you differently bc of this. Like saying I love you is something easy to say if tou really mean it, if she is not saying back just bc she is very tired of school and blabla sounds like an excuse for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thats what I was thinking but now that think about it more, it might be because I asked her if I could be her bf recently, which she wants to but it’s a whole story. TLDR, she wants to talk about it with me and still hang out and whatnot, but still hasn’t said love you back, I’m just confused

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