Anonymous #1 1w

I was talking to him for like two months every single day and we go on a date and suddenly he doesn’t like him. I genuinely thought he was the one. Why do people do thisssss

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Anonymous OP 1w

Sigh, I know, I’m guessing, I was the just the backup plan, I’m not sure what your situation was. For me, I have a feeling I was plan C or something. Pretty sure I’m going to get ghosted at some point

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Anonymous #1 1w

That’s just terrible. I never thought about me being a back up option but now I ammm! But what’s crazy is that if he ever messaged me, I’d drop everything and go back. He’s been so nice about the whole thing and told me that he’d understand if I unadded him. I just wish he was a bit ruder about the whole thing. Like if he was a dick, this whole situation would be so much easier.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m guessing your situation is probably different if he’s nice to you, mine has been gradually getting more distant

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Anonymous #1 1w

I mean he takes ages to reply but is always online and just says “he’s busy” which was also his excuse when I asked if I could see him again. I have a feeling he’s going to become distant soon and I really don’t want that.

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Anonymous OP 1w

It’s probably best to just rip off the bandaid sooner than later

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Anonymous #1 1w

I really don’t want to though. I’m holding onto the possibility that he might change his mind even though I’m like 99.9% sure he won’t 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #2 6d

Yk what, I love that. I need to realise that there’s a reason that he’s not the one. And from what my friends have told me, I’m blind cuz all my friends have said that when they saw him, they wondered why I liked him and said I could do so much better. Only question, how do I find someone else lmfaoo!! I don’t get out that much!

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Anonymous OP 6d

I am in the same boat. I work a ton and have to find the time to be social and get out of my comfort zone a little bit. I’ve found for myself that when I use dating apps or anything of the sort for “artificial matchmaking”, the relationship quality is significantly less than a natural interaction.

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Anonymous #2 6d

Sorry this goes with my other message

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Anonymous #2 6d

That’s such a good idea!! I’m very introverted so I have to get out of my shell sooner rather than later!!! Thank you so much!! I’m gonna try being the best version of myself to show him what he missed. I have the power to humble him baddd if he comes back too!! 🤣🤣

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Anonymous OP 5d

Haha do it. Dm me, I want to get updates

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Anonymous #2 5d

I will do if anything changes!!!

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Anonymous #2 2d

Yeahhh so update… we had a whole ass argument cuz I made a joke about something and it turned into him twisting my words says “so you’re saying I can’t have friends” HELLO? So, I’ve very much opened my eyes. I pity his future girlfriend if he acts like that when it was VERY CLEARLY a joke lmaooo 😭😭

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