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Relationship Advice 17h
My gf was trying to get me to have sex with her but she asked me everyday and sometimes I’m just tired. Today I’m just not in the mood but instead just wanted her company. When I said no I’m not really in the mood right now, she got up and started to leav
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Anonymous 17h

if this is real then she's wrong, stupid, and emotionally manipulative

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Anonymous 16h

It’s natural to have some sort of complex feelings about your partner rejecting sex - to an extent. It’s not acceptable to do what she did, which is guilting you, punishing you for not having sex. You don’t get UTIs from lack of sex or lack of cumming… that is a manipulative and stupid lie to guilt you into having unwanted sex with her. Coming from a girl. I’m sorry you’re going through that.

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Anonymous 17h

When I asked her why she said she has stuff to do today. I called bs saying she’s just leaving cause I turned down sex at the moment. She said I always turn her down for sex and that’s the reason she got a UTI. So felt like she was blaming me for her getting a UTI. She said the UTI is connected to her not cumming and holding it in since I say no.

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Anonymous 5h

We just talked about it but honestly it doesn’t feel like things got better. She left and it feels like nothing was improved. I said my piece and she said hers but it didn’t feel like we got to an understanding. She said how she wasn’t throwing shots at me but that she was upset. And she only mentioned the toy cause she wanted to tell me before she did it. I tried to explain how the timing made me feel but she swears it wasn’t mean any harm. Just that she didn’t know how I felt about them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Then she decided to lay back down and when I went to leave for work she told me she’s gonna get a toy since I keep rejecting her. I said I don’t wanna have sex everyday but would instead just want to cuddle and be around each other. And now she’s questioning if I even find her attractive, which I’m constantly telling her that she is. Like come on what??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

This is very real it happen 2 hours ago

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

you should break up with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

You think it’s that big of a thing?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

not on its own, but it shows how she thinks, and it seems extremely toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

That’s exactly what I thought but ofc I’m not in medical field and she is so I wasn’t about to question her on that stuff. I thought she would have a similar reaction to mine when she rejects me. I just say okay but still cuddle up on her and give her attention she wants.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Bro she sounds lowkey evil. Like usually I’m all oh, maybe there’s a reason, maybe there’s compromise blah blah blah but like. She’s just making shit up to blame on you. You don’t get a uti from not cumming. And even if you did, masturbation exists! The way she’s pressuring you is incredibly unkind and not something you do to someone you care about

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