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Relationship Advice 6d
I don’t think I want to be in a relationship with my bf anymore…problem is I broke up with him once already and we got back together. We’ve been dating almost 4 years and I don’t know how to end things. Especially following V Day…
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Anonymous 6d

Honestly it sucks but there’s never gonna be a good time. You just gotta rip the bandaid off and get it over with. The sooner you do it the sooner he can work on healing. It’s selfish to put it off just cause it feels awkward or scary

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Anonymous 5d

Well, it sounds to me like you know what you have to do, and when you have to do it. Be gentle, explain clearly, and be prepared to make it as easy as possible for both of you. I believe in you bro <3

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Anonymous 6d

what’s going wrong

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Anonymous 5d

Do you live together? If not that makes it easier to break things off id think.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

No, we’re in a LDR because of college

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I’m really just wanting to do it in person instead of over the phone, and it’s going to be another 2.5 weeks before I see him again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

After this weekend when he came to visit, I just felt this relief once he had left. Things felt forced on my end but I don’t think he’s seeing the same issues I am

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

it’s good you noticed this and didn’t ignore it, it’s a rough decision i know. in my opinion i think finding the cause and communicating with him is a good move before ending it

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