Relationship Advice on Yik Yak | My girlfriend refuses to touch me/be intimate with me, we have sex maybe once a month when I initiate but it’s gotten to the point where I feel bad/gross for wanting her like that. I don’t know what to do but I know it’s definitely a me issue. Any advise?

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Relationship Advice 16h

My girlfriend refuses to touch me/be intimate with me, we have sex maybe once a month when I initiate but it’s gotten to the point where I feel bad/gross for wanting her like that. I don’t know what to do but I know it’s definitely a me issue. Any advise?

Anonymous 11h

Bro I’ll be fr I don’t think that’s a you issue. Either she has some issues/potential trauma around sex, she’s ace, or she just isn’t into you. I mean, you can try and ask her why and if there’s anything you can do, but I bet it’s a lot deeper than just a simple tweak. Either you can learn to live with it, or you can wish her the best and move on

Anonymous 16h

break up

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#2 10h

Tbc this isn’t me going ‘GET OVER IT OR GIVE UP’ at all, but your gf clearly has something going on in her head, and she doesn’t seem like to type to share that easily. You can’t make someone be honest. Sometimes people don’t even know what the issue is, or won’t share it for fear of hurting their partner. You’re not responsible for what she won’t disclose