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Would you break up with your bf one yr down the line if your found out he was dming other girls and flirting and asking one to visit if it was like 10 days before he asked you to be his gf? We had a convo about being exclusive before this too.
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Anonymous 20h

I deleted my original comment because I realized I misread this originally. Personally, I think this is really strange, and you're totally in the right to be upset because of the fact that it was so recent and close to when he asked you to be with him. I'd be really hurt if I was in your shoes too and think it'd be fair for you to wonder his intentions I'm so sorry this is happening, it sucks

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Anonymous 18h

I know personally it would make me feel a certain way about the relationship. And it would probably stay in my brain…I say ask to talk and lay it out how it’s still bothering you

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Anonymous 20h

I just don’t know if it’s something I can be mad at him about, I think I am definitely allowed to be upset. But we realistically were not dating yet, so that’s my problem

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Anonymous 18h

10 days before yall made it official hmmm

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Anonymous 12h

I mean. How do you think he’d feel the other way around? I’ve had this happen to me pretty much exact same situation.

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Anonymous 9h

10 days before no, because there was nothing that should of made him think that, that was not ok. If he does it again now that you guys are exclusive then leave his ass.

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