
as a woman in her 20’s, your feelings are so valid. Men used to sing outside windows and now they’re saying “are u up” and 3am. there’s so many things wrong with today’s society in terms of relationships and things wrong with men nowadays. However there are still men out there that are willing on giving you (and me) the life and relationship we deserve. I know that one day we will both find a man that loves us unconditionally!! <3
You can want and uphold your standards and eventually you will find your man. But also in this day and age, there’s not many men left who are virgins at 20 which isn’t a bad thing and they shouldn’t be judged but it significantly reduces your potential dating pool. Thats up to you if it’s worth waiting. Also, ppl are too nonchalant. But usually it’s coming from a place of fear of being too much and scaring others away. So if you push through that awkward start, you may find someone amazing.
I completely understand what you’re saying on the nonchalant part I would agree with you. It’s okay for people to have walls up as long as they show some kind of interest that I can work with ya know? As for the virginity thing, I know it’s not as common but it’s just my preference