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my boyfriend and I are on “different levels” he doesn’t go to college and when I get out of college I’ll be making more than him. I want a big life and he’s ok with the small life. Am I wrong if I break up with him? Our priorities might be different
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Anonymous 6w

if you guys have different priorities when it comes to your future, then it’s better to break up instead of staying together. as much as you may love your partner, you won’t last if you have different priorities. it’s better to just end things now so you can eventually find the right person that shares the same priorities as you. don’t force yourself to stay with someone who doesn’t want the same things as you. you’ll end up resenting your partner if you stay

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Anonymous 6w

I’m nervous about this too but with my gf. We’ve been together for three years which is the worst part…

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Anonymous 6w

No

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Anonymous 6w

I mean maybe college isn’t for him it isnt a big deal everyone has their own thing; making their own business, working, military etc now if he’s a jobless bum that’s different

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

also if you stay in the relationship, your partner my get the wrong idea and start planning your future together even though you want different things

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Trust me bro. If you already want to breakup with her, every day you wait makes it worse in the end. You owe her that as well.

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