Relationship Advice on Yik Yak | im white and my bf is mexican. i told him im not comfortable with him using the n word. he said he wouldn't say it anymore, but he still does. he also makes comments about how i don't have any place to police him on it bc he's a poc n im not.

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Relationship Advice 16h

im white and my bf is mexican. i told him im not comfortable with him using the n word. he said he wouldn't say it anymore, but he still does. he also makes comments about how i don't have any place to police him on it bc he's a poc n im not.

Anonymous 16h

yo bf stupid

Anonymous 13h

Yo that’s fucking stupid. I’m mixed and I don’t even use the word. (Hispanic black and white.) I don’t think it’s appropriate for myself since I’m light asf 😂 definitely not okay and even though he is technically a poc , he is not black .

Anonymous 7h

Dump him I’m so serious I’m Mexican and my ex was also Hispanic and I hated when he did that I told him repeatedly I didn’t like him saying slurs and he stopped but I found out he only stopped in front of me and was still that way to everyone else. Your man isn’t gonna change and that’s even worse he says you can’t “police him” when he’s being called out. He won’t change and he’s gonna expect you to get used to it

Anonymous 10h

So I guess he’s fine with black folks using w—b—- or b——r, some folks need a taste of their own shit.

Anonymous 4h

Best answer I can give is to break up with him and call it a day. He’s not respecting your boundaries on the use of a word.. what else is he not going to respect you about?..

Anonymous 1h

Let me guess you support Lindsay Clancy too. Stupid wh*te girl

Anonymous

#1 14h

As a black person, I appreciate you sticking your neck out for us. It’s kinda sad how stuff like this is casually being brought back.. POC on POC crime is real and while some people might not care, some of us do, so thank you for this 🩷

Anonymous

#1 8h

best response lmfao

Anonymous

#6 5h

That's exactly what happened. he told me he wouldn't say it and that he doesn't, but i saw it in messages on his phone from the day before So i pressed the issue again

Anonymous

#8 1h

Dude what ? Who r u talking 2?

Anonymous

#3 1h

Who do you think? Oh maybe the wall?