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why does he always get defensive when i say how i feel like when something he does hurt me? i just end up feeling like the bad guy
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Anonymous 1d

he does it BECAUSE it makes you feel like the bad guy.

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Anonymous 1d

He sounds toxic to me girl. Relationship is about adjusting to each other accepting accountability and understanding vulnerability.

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Anonymous 1d

your feelings are 100% valid, you can never change how you feel. but some guys could get defensive because they don’t want to take accountability, or maybe he thinks you’re being “overdramatic”. find yourself a man that can understand you whether you’re in the right or wrong.

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