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So..my bf doesn’t know if he loves me anymore, I’m trying to build trust again but it just doesn’t feel reciprocated. I don’t know, I don’t even know what happened
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Anonymous 13h

Wdym by build trust again?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

He said when I said “why didn’t you tell me this like during the school year?” He was like I didn’t think I could because I didn’t want you to be upset I have gotten maybe sad by his words but not mad, so I’m trying to build trust up again so he tells me stuff (to do with us) even if it may result in conflict Build it up by communicating more, what I feel, when I can talk, etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

about what, though? tell him what?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

I think it’s that he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings rather than avoid possibly making you angry, at least that’s what I’m picking up from what you’re saying. Just because he might be losing feelings doesn’t mean that something happened, it could just be what it is which still fucking sucks. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and his lack of communication. All you can really do is make it clear you’re open to communicating even if it means possibly being hurt because honesty is what’s (1)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Best for the the both of you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 37m

Well I kept that anonymous for a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 36m

Yeah I think that he doesn’t want to hurt me too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 36m

Thank you

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