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my gf rarely compliments me anymore and is so busy all the time. last time she complimented me she was drunk, and then took it all back when she was sober. i don’t know how to bring it up bc she’s so busy, but it’s starting to affect me. any advice?
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Anonymous 2w

how long have you been together?

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Anonymous 2w

is she genuinely busy constantly? like you don't have any outings or dates or anything planned?

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Anonymous 2w

wdym she took it back?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

just made 6 months

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

when did you start feeling ignored?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

it’s been ongoing for the past two or three weeks. if it was only for a day or week i wouldn’t worry about it, but it’s been continuous

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

sorry idk why this didn't go as a reply

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

we’re long distance. and we used to call every tuesday but our schedules don’t align anymore. she’s in multiple shows with rehearsals late into the night + school

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

don’t worry it’s all good

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

oh long distance definitely makes it tougher, I'm sorry. I know the feeling. Maybe try to schedule another time you guys could call? It's important that you let her know how you feel though, because if it really is being busy that's preventing her from talking to you, then only by knowing that you feel neglected will she know that she has to fix that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

thank you for the advice i really appreciate it!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

basically she said in the morning when she sobered to “ignore what she said last night”

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