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500k is for orthopedic and neuro anyways, like you’re worried about the divorce rate? or you’re worried that you’ll be belittled because she’ll be smarter than you?
My girl is trynna be a surgeon and make $500k a year. However, she can’t get it through her head that her career means very little to me and that that doesn’t make me intimidated. What’s intimidating is the high ass divorce rate especially when women lead
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Anonymous 13h

Maybe precovid. Most surgeons can hit 500k easy. Esp in like 10 years (bc i assume she’s not in med school yet)

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Anonymous 1d

Not worried about her being smarter lol I expect a doctor to know more. Belittling is a known thing too when they earn more. Which will def lead to divorce

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Anonymous 1d

Yes, divorce is very high when a woman earns significantly more than the man. Thats a big problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

instead of blaming her for what she wants why don’t you aspire to be like her and meet her there?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Why would you marry someone who belittles you?? That’s a personality issue, that’s got nothing to do with what she makes. Just don’t marry a jerk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

Facts tho. It most likely won’t happen immediately so you keep letting little this slip and it works its way up. That’s like asking couple “why you marry him if he hits you” she probably didn’t know. But the power dynamics shift with a women breadwinner and she will throw it at his face when she upset

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Not blaming anyone. I’ve not once said anything bad about her but people feel the need to defend her so no reason. Bunch of clowns. Oh imma get up there one why or another💪🏽 already on a good path

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

you also do realize you say way more like you’re comparing 70k to 500k right? that’s how it’s coming across here, my boy and his wife make a combined 770k, she’s a trauma surgeon averaging about 440k and he’s a mechanic/electrical engineer both in new york and he makes about 330k, the difference is very negligible when you get to those amounts, so just get yourself up there too and you won’t have anything to worry about and even if something comes to pass then atleast you’ll be fine after the

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

fact, people who only care about money only care about money, just find someone who does not give a fuck about money, simple as that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Correlation is not causation. I bet if we had universal housing and food, more poor women would file divorce

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

Crazy how you call women poor and nobody says anything. Women have been working for a long time. You act like they can’t make money. Plus you just admitted basically that women will happily break up a family for a better option

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

how many surgeons do you know? Also, where are you getting your math and statistics from?

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