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gf broke up with me bc long distance was too hard for her. said she still loved me & posted about missing me a week later. I plan on going to law school next year & my top school is near her. should I try to reconnect when I go there or am I delusional?
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Anonymous 13w

When did this breakup happen, recently? I think you shouldn’t plan to try or not try to reconnect when you go there, you should just see when you get there. If you or her find someone else in the mean time or for some other reason it wouldn’t work you don’t want a possible plan for the future that might not work to get in the way of your life now. If you plan to try to reconnect when you get there and by then she dates someone else, how would that make you feel?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

it was recent. and this post is assuming I haven’t found someone else by then. if I still have feelings a year from now and she is single, do you think I should reach out?

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