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for men: is normal to go soft sometimes when having sex or not being able to stay hard?
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Anonymous 17h

Ngl yea especially if you’re drunk or watch porn excessively. Had that issue till I stopped doing it every day

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Anonymous 10h

No, not normal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

it’s happened to my boyfriend like 3 or 4 times and we’ve been dating for 6 months. but we also have sex very often. it just makes me feel bad idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Ask him to start taking nitrous oxide pills or beetroot if he hasn’t already. It creates a lot more blood flow and has helped my sex life a lot.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

I mean yeah if substances are involved then you’ll have a hard time keeping it up but is that considered normal circumstances? I also feel like once you get going, you shouldn’t really be getting soft mid stroke lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

no like on random days, like you just can’t stay hard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

while starting

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