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I’ve been with a really nice girl for almost a year now and I can’t get being with a man out of my head. I know I love her so I don’t think I can do anything. I just think about men a lot
#DL#AITA
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Anonymous 14w

I think you should communicate this to her. It’s unfair to both of your guys since she believes you only think of her when you’re having these thoughts and you dream about a different life (which is attainable). But definitely talk together, don’t hide this!!

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Anonymous 14w

Has there bene any decrease in this since it started or have the levels of it been mostly the same?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Definitely an increase but it’s not new

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I agree I think you should have a conversation with her and just be transparent about how you feel. If you believe that you might be attracted to both men and women, you never know what can happen. Hard conversations are the most productive and meaningful conversations to have.

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