Gf and I had a big fight because I didn’t initiate sex one night, she accused me of being gay, she apologized but she brought it up to poke at me when I thought we were playfully poking at each other, now I just get anxious and tense thinking about her
Gotta talk to her brother. Also, if she isn’t normally homophobic, ya gotta call out the fact that she’s an ally until it benefits her not to be
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Anonymous5w
man that sounds absolutely horrible. I'd say dump her for that. being homophobic and then trying to bully you about a thing SHE made up?
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Anonymous5w
Am I crazy or do I just not understand how this is homophobic
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Anonymous5w
Imma be honest with ya chief
She was trying to get makeup sex
Women will create fake arguments so you can come back together and have sex that feels more emotional to her
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Anonymous#15w
Idk man it kinda hurt and now I think I might be to anxious around her to even try
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AnonymousOP5w
If it made you feel some typa way, she’s not gonna just know that if you don’t say something
If she labels you as gay for talking about feelings then just do whatever it takes to bang her one last time and move on to the next girl
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Anonymous#45w
how would accusing your partner of being gay for not wanting to have sex one time and then using it to make fun of them later not be homophobic
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Anonymous#25w
Because it’s not in any way demeaning to gay people?? At least I don’t see it that way