this is me genuinely trying to be more productive than telling you to dump him. if you accept his apologies, you're showing him that you don't actually value him being faithful as much as you value him being Very Sorry, and he can always be Very VERY Sorry when he does it again, and when that happens you'll already be in the habit of forgiving him.

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he saw a different girl and saw her in the same way he sees you. he wanted her. to feel her. to kiss her. to fuck her. that’s sickening and it should be. there’s no choice here. he will do it again, he’ll just hide it better.

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you’ll also never be able to look at him the same. you’ll constantly wonder what he’s doing on his phone, where he’s at, the girl will be in the back of your mind, it’ll drive you crazy. it isn’t worth it. my boyfriend was amazing to me and he cheated. i left and im 100% happier than i wouldve been had i stayed. itll take time to get over, but you will get over it!! wishing you the best my love

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Never ever let him back with you! Tell him if he wanted to be there enough to disrespect YOU then that’s where he should be, and btw, once he cheats and gets away with it he will absolutely cheat again. Keep your self-respect and self-esteem. You’re better than him

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you will never ever ever be able to forget it or stop thinking about it, you are going to continue to doubt your beauty and worth more and more, you will start to feel ugly everyday and you guys will only start arguing and resent each other more and more if you stay

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