My boyfriend told me he feels goofy telling people that flirt with him that he’s in a relationship… he just says I’m not interested. WHY DO I WANT THEM TO KNOW THAT HE HAS A GF AND ITS ME 😭
imo it's worse to reply with "i'm in a relationship" because then it comes across as "aha damn if it wasn't for my girlfriend..." instead of "no thanks"
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Anonymous3d
I think it would be much worse if he didn’t refuse them at all. I get both sides of this
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Anonymous9h
First ask- saying I’m not interested suffices cause it puts the blame on him and not “if he didn’t have a gf”
Second ask- saying I have a s/o because the person being rejected needs to take a fucking hint
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Anonymous3d
He’s at the bar w the boys rn and it besties w the bartender… im so insecure rn idk why AHH
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AnonymousOP3d
I think that’s kinda messed up ngl
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Anonymous#33d
I’m remembering now that he says that he isn’t interested